"Just remember that sometimes, the way you think about a person isn't always the way they actually are."
— Quentin Jacobsen, Paper Towns.
I read the book twice. I knew how the story would end. But you know, even though, sometimes, life hits you right on it. It does.
After watching the movie, I realized something.
"People come and go. The best will stay."
We always tend to look for someone who can complete us. As if we were an unsolved puzzle. Who'll make us laugh hard with that single joke told for the nth time. Who'll make us see this crazy world, differently. Who'll wipe those tears when we cry because of silly net-flix, jealousy or we just feel like crying. Whose over protective. Who"ll catch you every single time your clumsiness attacks you. Who'll just stay beside you for long hours without a single word. Who'll talk to you with undivided attention even if you haven't brushed your teeth or you ate something awful. Who'll support you with all that you want to accomplish. Who understands your weirdness like nobody does. Who you can share secrets with, without hesitations. Who adores every bit of you. Who respects. Who trusts. Who loves you.
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| Very Blessed | Incomplete |
I hate to break this, but the truth is, we already got the "who" that we are dying to look for. We're just too blind and really occupied to see, that, that "who", (in my case, fortunately.) are actually "them".
I admit. Often I fail when it comes to showing my appreciation to the one's close to my heart. Not that I don't care about them, but because I love hard that I totally forget to leave some for myself, for those who care, for those who truly matter.
Lucky for us, It is not too late.
What we can do now is to appreciate and cherish them. Love them. Miss them like you mean it. You don't have to blurt it out and say "I care for you. I love you." you just got to make them feel it. Genuinely. Sometimes, making them feel you totally love, care, and understand them is better than just telling them. Believe me when everyone says that "Actions speak L O U D E R than words."
I don't know how to end this post. I'm basically overwhelmed with the pictures I have with the closest, the pillars, the strength of my life.
Shout out to my (1/4) Ultimate Best friend, Vielka for being equally sane and for keeping up with my crazy and spontaneous (late night) adventures! Our movie nights just got even better with you and your honest punto de vista.
Oh, One last thing,
Learn to Appreciate.
The only thing everyone asks us for.
Love,
Kevin ♥
